So when you’re married…  And have kids…  How do you do the Mother’s Day thing?  Do you all sign one card for each mother and/or grandmother?  Do you only sign the card for your own mother and/or grandmother?  Do you even send cards and/or gifts to your grandmother(s)?  How do you guys break it down?

Does your husband send a card to his mother that only he signed?  Do I send her another one?  Do my kids send her one for being their grandmother?  Do DH and I send one together and our kids another?  Do we all just send one?  The options, the OPTIONS, people!  How do you do it?